Danny Bevins, Darrell Bevins, Kye Saunders, and producer John J. Murray debate whether you should smoke/drink before a date and what you wish you knew about someone before dating.0:00 - intro0:43 - The reefer store6:18 - Smoking before a date12:22 - Smokers/nonsmokers dating14:47 - The Ick15:32 - Couples with different values23:30 - Wrap up25:01 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-909825:32 - Credits

Dree Friar joins hosts Danny Bevins, Darrell Bevins, Kye Saunders, and producer John J. Murray a to discuss how bad relationships can ruin a person, insults that stick with you, and men who don’t prioritize a woman’s pleasure.0:00 - intro1:33 - Dree has given up on dating2:39 - Darrell on a date4:12 - It takes one bad relationship to ruin you8:03 - Contentment in being alone11:32 - Broken people14:39 - Dree's dating story16:00 - Problems in polyamory18:03 - Profiling the "Never No'20:25 - Men without drive22:17 - Guys that won't go down26:17 - Insults that last28:13 - If you want something done, do it yourself29:13 - wrap up30:02 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-909830:34 - Credits

Danny Bevins, Danny Bevins, John J. Murray and Kye Saunders welcome guest Sofia Sanchez to discuss finding someone with common interests, love through jiu-jitsu, and the definition of a toxic relationship.0:00 - intro0:52 - Sofia's relationships3:04 -Grappling with love6:13 - Sofia's wander years before current boyfriend7:12 - Pregaming with Tinder10:39 - Avoiding the wrong ones/dating a robot13:16 - Sharing humor and interest on profiles17:35 - The importance of a partner who tolerates your flaws20:53 -The definition of "toxic"26:48 -Wrap up27:08 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-909827:39  - Credits

Danny and John J. are joined by Kye, Dee, and Frankie to talk about their drastically different approaches to dating. Is the journey the destination or should the destination be a clearly defined, immediately obtainable goal?0:00 - Intro0:43 - Having fun with dating3:54 - Dating with purpose5:21 - Analyzing Darrell Bevins6:34 - Gender roles8:13 - Avoid the "fun sponge"11:09 - Dating junk mail12:41 - Etiquette of nudes18:46 - Inconvenient nude20:26 - Wrap up20:53 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-909821:25 - Credits

Danny, Darrell, and John J. are joined by Kye Saunders about dating friends and friends with benefits.0:00 - Intro0:43 - Can friendships survive datiing?3:56 - Waiting in the wings8:02 - Darrell's big night12:14 - It can be done16:24 - Friends with benefits21:45 - A situationship25:23 - No one teaches us about love27:46 - Wrap up28:15 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-909828:47 - Credits

Danny, Darrell Bevins and John J. Murray chat with Shelley about dating friends, creepy messages and awkward dates.0:00 - intro1:10 - Darrel's news2:22 - What's you sign?5:27 - Dating people with kids7:09 - Dating friends8:29 - What is a "f**k boy"?10:16 - The next best thing15:58 - Left at first sight17:33 - Competition19:27 - Shelley's creepy message21:18 - Casting a wide net22:39 - Wrap up24:57 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-909825:29 - Credits

Danny is off but Darrell Bevins and John J. Murray are joined by comedians Marie Williams and Hugh Carey. Hugh walks the hosts through his life dating as a gay man before and during the era of apps.  0:00 - Intro0:43 - Meet the guests2:34 - Face the Jury5:34 - Hugh explains his first hookup8:41 - Ups and downs in dating11:54 - Hugh finds a longterm relationship without looking14:48 - Differences in dating17:44 - Open relationships21:15 - Back to Grindr22:51 - Hinge is the clearance section26:03 - Wrap up27:33 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-909828:04 - Credits

Danny is off but Darrell Bevins and John J. Murray are joined by comedians Marie Williams and Kye Saunders who explain dating for a younger generation. What’s it like to have always had dating apps? Are young people seeking relationships? Is the traditional date dead? Listen and find out.0:00 - Intro0:44 - Meeting the guests and discussing the theme song2:07 - Coming of age with dating apps4:30 - Tinder Jr.6:30 - In the beginning there was Tinder9:26 - Researching Hinge11:06 - What gets attention on Bumble?12:37 - Saving friends from catfishing15:36 - Are people in their 20s looking for relationships?17:06 - Having a hard time having a hard time21:33 - Making compromises to get lucky25:46 - The benefits of casual hookups27:54 - The decline of the dinner and a movie date30:48 - Wrap up31:15 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-909831:46 - Credits

The Never Nos are on vacation. Danny Bevins and John J. Murray are joined by single moms Ashley Mostoller and Amanda Wilson to discuss their views on dating with kids.0:00 - intro0:43 - Meet the guests2:16 - online dating before apps3:56 - Ashley's nightmare relationship6:38 - Amanda learned to say "no" and recognize red flags9:38 - Dating apps aren't for everyone13:00 - Single parenting is no joke14:03 - When to introduce people to your children15:44 - How does a single parent find time to date17:53 - Danny can't imagine his mother dating18:56 - balancing romance with parenting20:13 - How children deal with your breakups21:42 - Modeling healthy relationships23:24 - New addtitions to the family24:39 - Advice to single moms25:43 - Wrap up26:07 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-9098

The Never Nos are on vacation. Danny Bevins and John J. Murray are joined by single dads Brad Gilmore and Jander Gray to discuss their views on dating with kids.0:00 - intro0:43 - No 'Never Nos', today's guests are single dads2:10 - Just because you have a kid doesn;t mean you want to date someone with a kid4:40 - Brad shares a recent heartbreak7:25 - Brad thinks he's growing as a person8:31 - Pansexuality9:51 - Bad people make bad relationships10:56 - Dating with a special needs child and a toxic co-parent13:10 - Jander realized he wasn't ready to start dating again14:21 - A dad can't date someone who hates children15:56 - Getting caught by their kids17:42 - Brad's advice for dads trying to date20:30 - Jander's advice after a horrific divorce23:03 - We all want love but we need to know how to love25:30 - Wrap up25:56 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-909826:28 - Credits

Kaiti McCoy and Darrell Bevins explain how texting is utilized in today’s dating. Danny Bevins and John J. Murray are utterly lost.0:00 - intro0:43 - Danny is a bad texter1:41 - Kaiti needs more than one word responses3:55 - Kaiti had to learn to not stress out about grammar in texts5:31 - You can learn a lot about person by the way they text and it is important to be mindful of your etiquette8:58 - Do abbreviated words and slang mean the same things in texts? Do they mean the same things to everyone?10:08 - Miscommunication in texts11:48 - More explanation on abbreviations12:34 - Emojis- do we all understand and agree on what they mean?14:48 - Danny doesn't understand why people can't answer the phone15:48 - Darrell think sit okay to wait a day before responding, but everyone else seems to disagree21:45 - How to flirt in texting without coming on too strong or being a creep25:21 - Moving from flirting to more intimate exchanges27:04 - Danny is new to emojis and making mistakes29:27 - We have to accept each other's texting habits30:42 - Getting blocked31:45 - Wrap up32:10 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-909832:41 - Credits

Danny Bevins and John J. Murray ask Kaiti McCoy and Darrell Bevins what it costs to date these days, what's a good first date, who pays, and what are some automatic deal breakers the first time they meet a new person.0:44 - Dating while broke2:38 - Dating during Covid3:53 - Dinner and a movie is a nightmare5:44 - Meeting over Zoom6:36 - Meeting at the beach8:01 - Charcuterie10:13 - Bike riding11:33 - Netflix & Chill12:14 - Checking out their dirty house 15:32 - The house that's too clean17:00 - Guys with no furniture17:28 - Messy car18:23 - Discussing the cost of a date19:18 - Who pays?19:45 - Some guys want to pay to make their date feel obligated21:43 - Being a gentleman (opening doors, paying for dinner, etc)22:51 - Door test24:19 - Older generations know the rules26:54 - Contact us27:23 - Credits

Danny Bevins asks Darrell Bevins, Kaiti McCoy, and John J. Murray about their experiences with and philosophies about dating people with children of various ages.

Danny Bevins swears he'll never date again if his wife were to leave him, and Jander Gray can give him plenty of examples of why he shouldn't. In this episode, Jander joins Danny, Darrell, and John in the studio to talk about dating life after being recently divorced.

Ever had a first date where someone tries to pee on you... in the park? Lauren Lance has! We can't thank her enough for stopping by the studio to share that and other unforgettable tales from her dating life with Danny Bevins. Also in the studio: Darrell Bevins and John J. Murray.0:46 - Darrell went on a date with someone who wouldn't speak3:10 - Lauren Lance might have found someone4:00 - Lauren's assessment of the dating sites5:13 - You probably don't need dating apps 5:55 - Getting your friends to vet the new person7:05 - Social media allows you to be shadier than ever8:11 - There comes a point when using a dating app is a really bad sign8:42 - Dating a cheater9:30 - The poly thing12:15 - Let's hear the bad stories12:45 - Honesty is not the best policy, ladies13:58 - Pegging14:38 - Lauren's pee date21:10 - Laura was honest and look where it got her22:32 - Withholding info about fetishes doesn't help much either 24:15 - Lauren dodges a bullet25:00 - Guys who drop the L word early26:15 - Of course he does hair too27:43 - The wrap up29:00 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message at (727) 386-909829:30 - Credits

Smoking weed in the park, watching Netflix at home, and meeting strangers in their vans. Darrell Bevins and Kaiti McCoy share some examples of their first dates while Danny Bevins and John J. Murray ponder how they're still alive. 0:46 - The reason for doing this podcast1:17 - Danny got hired to write someone's dating profile1:40 - Introducing the panel2:28 - How do single people meet?3:11 - Kaiti prefers to smoke a bowl on the first meetup5:40 - How forthcoming should you be about weed, etc. when first meeting someone?8:00 - Where do you meet up for the first time?10:20 - Netflix and chill is the new dinner and a movie11:45 - Do you call the first meetup a date?13:51 - Getting your date to leave14:15 - Do you really expect the date to lead to a relationship or marriage?17:45 - What do you talk about at a meetup?18:28 - Polyamory19:15 - Managing expectations19:51 - Talking about your ex on a first date20:34 - Blind date making you their therapist21:50 - Not all references to one's exes are bad23:10 - Kaiti likes hearing about the exes24:00 - Kaiti would meet people who lived in their vans26:00 - Dating apps might not be the best way to look for long term relationships27:22 - Where not to meet for the first time28:01 - Wrap up28:45 - Contact us at nevernopodcast@gmail.com or leave a message (727) 386-909829:15 - Credits

Danny went off the market long before dating apps were a thing, so he has no idea what goes on in this world. Luckily he and John J. Murray have Darrell Bevins and Kaiti McCoy, two Never No's, to explain how single people navigate the dating scene in the cyber realm. After hearing the pros, the cons, the good stories, and the awful ones, Danny's even happier to say he's a married man. 0:44 - Islendiga - The app that will tell someone in Iceland if they're related to the person they want to date1:24 - What is dating app?3:15 - Tinder3:53 - Kaiti was banned from Tinder8:00 - What's a win when you're using dating apps?9:04 - Bumble10:07 - "In town for a few days"11:28 - Setting up mini flings while traveling15:20 - John's experience with dating sites16:46 - Profile pic must be recent18:00 - Don't fear rejection19:55 - Ads on dating apps21:35 - Danny' idea for an app22:50 - Darrell's idea for an app24:40 - Wrapping up25:41 - Contact us26:14 - Credits

To open the podcast, Danny Bevins asks his panel a simple question: What is a date? Danny's brother Darrell, his friend Kaiti McCoy, and producer John J. Murray try to explain what it means to be on a date now to a man who hasn't been on a date in 25 years.